Ikogosi Warm Spring Ikogosi is a small quiet town in Ekiti West Local Government area of Ekiti State, which has been catapulted to national and international limelight because of the presence of warm and cold springs flowing side by side in the town.
She now stood nude in the lamplight except for her black embroidered cotton stockings which were held up by elastic bands around the thighs. He rolled the stockings down and She stepped out of her stockings. She held her arms across her breasts. He stood and turned her around slowly for inspection, a frown on her face… ”
She now stood nude in the lamplight except for her black embroidered cotton stockings which were held up by elastic bands around the thighs. ”
Sex is a typical part of human experiences. The urge comes naturally and usually controls the emotional, physical and spiritual aspects of the human lives. Sex is one of the top pleasurable experiences known. It is also one of the most emotional experience due to the intimate nature of sex. Our immediate environment is flooded with images that portray sex, from publications in magazines, TV commercials, poster boards to sexually explicit home video, music video, lyrics, online pornography etc.
Today, we will be learning about three aspect of premarital or extra marital sex.
Emotional/Psychological Aspect
Every person you had sex with deposit some kind chemistry into your emotion. That is why you tend to imagine the way it felt after you had sex with a particular person, how pleasurable it felt and how you may love to have sex with such person again or how you would love to practice same style with someone else. In most cases the first thing that may sweep through you mind whenever you catch a glimpse of that person’s appearance is the memories of the sex you had together. The higher the number of times you had sex together the more likely it may result into depression after a breakup.
Take note, just a one night stand with anyone you are committed or not committed to (outside marriage) can ruin you emotionally or psychologically.
Treatment: Get to rid of bad memories. Maybe you grew up in a household that promoted promiscuity, was misguided as a teen/youth and became at risk, lost your virginity to a sick minded family member, or even got raped. Whatever happened, know that it was not your fault, and you should not feel shameful. Accept what happened, forgive the past, and find a supportive and confidential group to help you move past this emotionally. The best part about growing up is maturing emotionally. This means that you can lick all the wounds you incurred as a teen/youth, and heal yourself to become a better, faster, smarter person. Start today by loving yourself.
2.Medical Aspect
Scientists have found that signals from the sex organs can influence the ageing rate of the body so it is much safer to have just a sexual partner. Who else will that sex partner be if not your spouse? How long will you keep trying different girls or boys? Till sex makes you look older than your age or till you get some incurable diseases?
Treatment: Try some Kegel exercise. Few of Kegel exercises can surely give you some really nice toned up pelvic floor muscles. Kegel exercise is very good for both men and women as it helps them solve pelvic floor issues and can also control urinary coarseness. You can very easily do these exercises in the comforts of your home.
Eat healthy diet. Apart from exercises, your body needs nutrition. Have a diet of fruits, vegetables, juices and smoothies, enriched in carbohydrates, minerals, proteins, fat and other lean proteins and etc.
Although you cannot ‘undo losing your virginity’ completely, you can get surgery (as a female) to restore a small part of your body called the hymen. This procedure can be expensive, and also take a fair amount of time.
In addition if you don’t want to go through surgery. Working out is also a really good practice to get into. It serves as a meditation and strengthens your body and mind.
3. Spiritually Aspect
There is a tiny line between sex and the spiritual world. Mortal – Immortal, Mortal – Mortal can connect together during sexual intercourse, thereafter having access into each other’s life sharing power, problem… in common.
The trendy phrase that ladies are more exposed to misfortune in future because of the broken hymens, loosed clitoris may be true but stale. Due to advance in science and technology this may be treated before notice. Although both sex (male or female) may experience some spiritual consequences, it is also important to note that: the man being the image the woman was coined from, and Eve not noticing she was naked until the man-Adam ate the forbidden fruit, has more power to expose his family to dangers spiritually than the woman when he engages in premarital or extra marital sex.
Treatment: Start attending a bible believing church and get baptized in some manner (even if you are not religious). Do whatever it is you need to do in order to feel pure again, and to attain that mind-set that you are a pure human being unaffected by the past. Make a treaty with yourself, and give yourself the gift of inner peace. Many people meditate as well. You may want to give it a try. Whatever you are working to achieve, know that you can do it.
So What Next?
Having plans to engage in premarital or extra marital sex?
Solution: Terminate it
Already engaged in premarital or extra marital sex?
Solution for married: Stop it.
Solutions for single: Stop it and yes you can be a virgin again, regardless. Let’s call it REJUVIRGINATE (becoming a virgin again by abstaining from sex).
You already become a baby mama or papa due to premarital sex?
Solution: It’s not the end of the world and yes you can also REJUVIRGINATE. You need to sit up and encourage yourself. There are so many people out there happily married and living together with non-biological child/children as a family.
”The best way to abstain from premarital or extra marital sex is to control your sexual urge and emotions. Take charge of yourself. Do not let you urge or emotions control you.”
She now stood nude in the lamplight except for her black embroidered cotton stockings which were held up by elastic bands around the thighs. He rolled the stockings down and She stepped out of her stockings. She held her arms across her breasts. He stood and turned her around slowly for inspection, a frown on her face… ”
”She now stood nude in the lamplight except for her black embroidered cotton stockings which were held up by elastic bands around the thighs.”
Sex is a typical part of human experiences. The urge comes naturally and usually controls the emotional, physical and spiritual aspects of the human lives. Sex is one of the top pleasurable experiences known. It is also one of the most emotional experience due to the intimate nature of sex. Our immediate environment is flooded with images that portray sex, from publications in magazines, TV commercials, poster boards to sexually explicit home video, music video, lyrics, online pornography etc.
Today, we will be learning about three aspect of premarital or extra marital sex.
Emotional/Psychological Aspect
Every person you had sex with deposit some kind chemistry into your emotion. That is why you tend to imagine the way it felt after you had sex with a particular person, how pleasurable it felt and how you may love to have sex with such person again or how you would love to practice same style with someone else. In most cases the first thing that may sweep through you mind whenever you catch a glimpse of that person’s appearance is the memories of the sex you had together. The higher the number of times you had sex together the more likely it may result into depression after a breakup.
Take note, just a one night stand with anyone you are committed or not committed to (outside marriage) can ruin you emotionally or psychologically.
Treatment: Get to rid of bad memories. Maybe you grew up in a household that promoted promiscuity, was misguided as a teen/youth and became at risk, lost your virginity to a sick minded family member, or even got raped. Whatever happened, know that it was not your fault, and you should not feel shameful. Accept what happened, forgive the past, and find a supportive and confidential group to help you move past this emotionally. The best part about growing up is maturing emotionally. This means that you can lick all the wounds you incurred as a teen/youth, and heal yourself to become a better, faster, smarter person. Start today by loving yourself.
2.Medical Aspect
Scientists have found that signals from the sex organs can influence the ageing rate of the body so it is much safer to have just a sexual partner. Who else will that sex partner be if not your spouse? How long will you keep trying different girls or boys? Till sex makes you look older than your age or till you get some incurable diseases?
Treatment: Try some Kegel exercise. Few of Kegel exercises can surely give you some really nice toned up pelvic floor muscles. Kegel exercise is very good for both men and women as it helps them solve pelvic floor issues and can also control urinary coarseness. You can very easily do these exercises in the comforts of your home.
Eat healthy diet. Apart from exercises, your body needs nutrition. Have a diet of fruits, vegetables, juices and smoothies, enriched in carbohydrates, minerals, proteins, fat and other lean proteins and etc.
Although you cannot ‘undo losing your virginity’ completely, you can get surgery (as a female) to restore a small part of your body called the hymen. This procedure can be expensive, and also take a fair amount of time.
In addition if you don’t want to go through surgery. Working out is also a really good practice to get into. It serves as a meditation and strengthens your body and mind.
3. Spiritually Aspect
There is a tiny line between sex and the spiritual world. Mortal – Immortal, Mortal – Mortal can connect together during sexual intercourse, thereafter having access into each other’s life sharing power, problem… in common.
The trendy phrase that ladies are more exposed to misfortune in future because of the broken hymens, loosed clitoris may be true but stale. Due to advance in science and technology this may be treated before notice. Although both sex (male or female) may experience some spiritual consequences, it is also important to note that: the man being the image the woman was coined from, and Eve not noticing she was naked until the man-Adam ate the forbidden fruit, has more power to expose his family to dangers spiritually than the woman when he engages in premarital or extra marital sex.
Treatment: Start attending a bible believing church and get baptized in some manner (even if you are not religious). Do whatever it is you need to do in order to feel pure again, and to attain that mind-set that you are a pure human being unaffected by the past. Make a treaty with yourself, and give yourself the gift of inner peace. Many people meditate as well. You may want to give it a try. Whatever you are working to achieve, know that you can do it.
So What Next?
Having plans to engage in premarital or extra marital sex?
Solution: Terminate it
Already engaged in premarital or extra marital sex?
Solution for married: Stop it.
Solutions for single: Stop it and yes you can be a virgin again, regardless. Let’s call it REJUVIRGINATE (becoming a virgin again by abstaining from sex).
You already become a baby mama or papa due to premarital sex?
Solution: It’s not the end of the world and yes you can also REJUVIRGINATE. You need to sit up and encourage yourself. There are so many people out there happily married and living together with non-biological child/children as a family.
”The best way to abstain from premarital or extra marital sex is to control your sexual urge and emotions. Take charge of yourself. Do not let you urge or emotions control you.”
She now stood nude in the lamplight except for her
black embroidered cotton stockings which were held up by elastic bands around
the thighs.
Sex is a typical part of human experiences. The urge comes naturally and usually controls the emotional, physical and spiritual aspects of the human lives. Sex is one of the top pleasurable experiences known. It is also one of the most emotional experience due to the intimate nature of sex. Our immediate environment is flooded with images that portray sex, from publications in magazines, TV commercials, poster boards to sexually explicit home video, music video, lyrics, online pornography etc.
Today, we will be learning about three aspect of premarital or extra marital sex.
Emotional/Psychological Aspect
Every person you had sex with deposit some kind chemistry into your emotion. That is why you tend to imagine the way it felt after you had sex with a particular person, how pleasurable it felt and how you may love to have sex with such person again or how you would love to practice same style with someone else. In most cases the first thing that may sweep through you mind whenever you catch a glimpse of that person’s appearance is the memories of the sex you had together. The higher the number of times you had sex together the more likely it may result into depression after a breakup.
Take note, just a one night stand with
anyone you are committed or not committed to (outside marriage) can ruin you
emotionally or psychologically.
Treatment: Get to rid of bad memories. Maybe you grew up in a household that promoted promiscuity, was misguided as a teen/youth and became at risk, lost your virginity to a sick minded family member, or even got raped. Whatever happened, know that it was not your fault, and you should not feel shameful. Accept what happened, forgive the past, and find a supportive and confidential group to help you move past this emotionally. The best part about growing up is maturing emotionally. This means that you can lick all the wounds you incurred as a teen/youth, and heal yourself to become a better, faster, smarter person. Start today by loving yourself.
2.Medical Aspect
Scientists have found that signals from
the sex organs can influence the ageing rate of the body so it is much safer to have just a sexual partner. Who else
will that sex partner be if not your spouse? How long will you keep trying
different girls or boys? Till sex makes you look older than your age or till
you get some incurable diseases?
Treatment: Try
some Kegel exercise. Few of Kegel exercises can surely give you some really
nice toned up pelvic floor muscles. Kegel exercise is very good for both men
and women as it helps them solve pelvic floor issues and can also control
urinary coarseness. You can very easily do these exercises in the comforts of
your home.
Eat healthy diet. Apart
from exercises, your body needs nutrition. Have a diet of fruits, vegetables,
juices and smoothies, enriched in carbohydrates, minerals, proteins, fat and
other lean proteins and etc.
Although you cannot ‘undo losing your virginity’ completely, you can get surgery (as a female) to restore a small part of your body called the hymen. This procedure can be expensive, and also take a fair amount of time.
In addition if you don’t want to go through surgery. Working out is also a really good practice to get into. It serves as a meditation and strengthens your body and mind.
3. Spiritually Aspect
There is a tiny line between sex and the spiritual world. Mortal – Immortal, Mortal – Mortal can connect together during sexual intercourse, thereafter having access into each other’s life sharing power, problem… in common.
The trendy phrase that ladies are more exposed to misfortune in future because of the broken hymens, loosed clitoris may be true but stale. Due to advance in science and technology this may be treated before notice. Although both sex (male or female) may experience some spiritual consequences, it is also important to note that: the man being the image the woman was coined from, and Eve not noticing she was naked until the man-Adam ate the forbidden fruit, has more power to expose his family to dangers spiritually than the woman when he engages in premarital or extra marital sex.
Treatment: Start attending a bible believing church and get baptized in some manner (even if you are not religious). Do whatever it is you need to do in order to feel pure again, and to attain that mind-set that you are a pure human being unaffected by the past. Make a treaty with yourself, and give yourself the gift of inner peace. Many people meditate as well. You may want to give it a try. Whatever you are working to achieve, know that you can do it.
So What Next?
Having plans to engage in premarital or extra marital sex?
Solution:
Terminate it
Already engaged in premarital or extra marital sex?
Solution
for married: Stop it.
Solutions
for single: Stop it and yes you can be a virgin again, regardless. Let’s call
it REJUVIRGINATE (becoming a virgin again by abstaining from sex).
You already become a baby mama or papa due to premarital sex?
Solution: It’s not the end of the world and yes you can also REJUVIRGINATE. You need to sit up and encourage yourself. There are so many people out there happily married and living together with non-biological child/children as a family.
”The best way to abstain from premarital or extra marital sex is to control your sexual urge and emotions. Take charge of yourself. Do not let you urge or emotions control you.”
Deeper and deeper I sink into the mire; I can’t find a foothold. I am in deep water, and the floods overwhelm me.
When the world is sinking in ignorance When men embrace death with passion When standing there in the middle seeing men perish When light creeps in darkness When salt lost its taste and light lost its value When you turn the other way thinking it’s right When the other way is a replica of the previous one When wisdom is lost When knowledge is strange and stale When standing there in the middle, seeing men perish Don’t go right, don’t turn left Both road leads to death They are sinking in deep waters on both roads!! Walking like zombies but wise in confusion Don’t go right, don’t turn left Look up, lift your head, raise your face Let your eyes look straight to the skies, see the clouds Look up, look up, look up to God for help He will surely take you out from the middle In the middle of the sinking world In the middle with just two ways In the middle where there is no left In the middle where there is no right In the middle of the unknown, confused world In the middle when you stare at the horizon and see men embrace death with passion In the middle where you stand and see men sink dead in deep waters In the middle where you stand amaze in worries and confusion In the middle of nowhere, where all hope seems lost In the middle of the Unknown, there are just two ways Don’t turn left, don’t go right ‘WHEN’ ‘IN THE MIDDLE’ Remember! Look up to JESUS, He will surely come to your Rescue.
It is so dark you cannot see, and a flood of water covers you.
Deeper and deeper I sink into the mire; I can’t find a foothold. I am in deep water, and the floods overwhelm me. Psalm 69:2 (NLT)
When the world is sinking in ignorance When men embrace death with passion When standing there in the middle seeing men perish When light creeps in darkness When salt lost its taste and light lost its value When you turn the other way thinking it’s right When the other way is a replica of the previous one When wisdom is lost When knowledge is strange and stale When standing there in the middle, seeing men perish Don’t go right, don’t turn left Both road leads to death They are sinking in deep waters on both roads!! Walking like zombies but wise in confusion Don’t go right, don’t turn left Look up, lift your head, raise your face Let your eyes look straight to the skies, see the clouds Look up, look up, look up to God for help He will surely take you out from the middle In the middle of the sinking world In the middle with just two ways In the middle where there is no left In the middle where there is no right In the middle of the unknown, confused world In the middle when you stare at the horizon and see men embrace death with passion In the middle where you stand and see men sink dead in deep waters In the middle where you stand amaze in worries and confusion In the middle of nowhere, where all hope seems lost In the middle of the Unknown, there are just two ways Don’t turn left, don’t go right ‘WHEN’ ‘IN THE MIDDLE’ Remember! Look up to JESUS, He will surely come to your Rescue.
It is so dark you cannot see, and a flood of water covers you.
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